A Conversation - Accidents

 Caution to the Reader: The conversation below explores the uncomfortable truths of why unforeseen events—even tragedies—occur in our lives. It dives into the raw mechanics of the subconscious mind. The content is hard to digest and may challenge your deepest beliefs, but it is a liberating one. Proceed only if you are courageous and ready to take full responsibility for your reality. Absolutely no scope for blaming anyone whatsoever. It is you and you are fully responsible.

A quiet evening, sitting together after a visit to the neighbors.

Beloved: That was heavy... visiting the neighbors. They are so heartbroken. They kept saying they felt helpless, that death just stole their happiness away.

Me: It is heartbreaking to see them in pain. But you know... as I sat there listening to them, I realized something that is hard to say out loud.

Beloved: What do you mean?

Me: I told them that no one dies unless they choose to. It may not be a conscious choice written on paper, but the choice exists in the silence of the soul.

Beloved: She looks at me, surprised. That sounds cruel, my love. Are you saying they wanted to die? Or that the family wanted them gone?

Me: Not consciously. Never consciously. Let me give you an example. Imagine a man who feels suffocated by his life. The pressure from his boss is unbearable, the demands of the household feel like chains. He craves freedom. He wants a break. But his conscious mind says, "I cannot ask for leave, they will deny it. I have bills to pay."

Beloved: So he suppresses it?

Me: Exactly. He pushes it down into the dark waters of his subconscious. But the Subconscious Mind is a faithful servant; it brings us what we truly feel. To give him that rest, the subconscious might create a reality where he suddenly falls ill and is hospitalized. In the hospital, he is finally free from the boss and the chores. The reality matches his hidden, desperate need for a break.

Beloved: That is scary enough.

Me: It goes deeper. Suppose that same man feels that his family is the cage. He loves them, but secretly, deep down, he resents the responsibility. He creates a vibration of "I need these obstacles gone." The Subconscious might answer by creating a reality where a family member passes away. Society calls it fate, but the man is now "free." He will mourn, he will never know that his own unchecked desire for freedom contributed to the loss.

Beloved: She shudders. That is terrifying. Is there anything worse than that?

Me: Yes. There is one outcome that creates the ultimate shock.

Beloved: What is it?

Me: Imagine that same man cannot escape the pressure. He tries everything but feels trapped. He starts thinking, "Life is just a struggle. There is no point. I just want peace. I want this to end." He isn't planning suicide, but he is radiating a deep, exhausted rejection of life.

Beloved: And the Subconscious listens?

Me: It listens perfectly. It interprets his desire for "The End" of the struggle as a command. It creates a reality where he dies. A sudden heart attack, an accident, a fatal stroke.

Beloved: She covers her mouth. So he gets his freedom... by losing his life?

Me: Yes. It is the ultimate leave of absence. He gets exactly what he emotionally asked for—total freedom from the boss, the home, and the struggle. He didn't want to die, he just wanted the struggle to stop, but because he didn't take a conscious break, his mind gave him a permanent one.

Beloved: This changes everything... It means our happiness isn't just a luxury. It’s a survival strategy.

Me: Precisely. Look at the children today. We put so much pressure on them for grades, thinking we are securing their future. But if a child feels life is torture, if the excitement to live is crushed... they might check out early. Their subconscious will pull the plug to save them from the pain we are inflicting.

Beloved: That explains why you argue with your family about the kids. They call you irresponsible.

Me: Let them call me irresponsible. I care about the child’s aliveness. If I ensure he is excited to live, excited to wake up, then he is safe. Health and peace follow that excitement. I cannot explain this to everyone; they wouldn't believe it. But I stand by it. We must choose our freedom and joy consciously, or our subconscious will take it for us destructively.

Me: To understand this, just look at my mango farm. I planted a hundred saplings. Some died early, some survived but yield less, and some grew tall and gave plenty of fruit.

Beloved: Just like people?

Me: Exactly. Some people reach the peaks of success simply because their circumstances accidentally matched their soul’s desire. It was unconscious. It was luck.

Beloved: But isn't that a good thing? To be lucky?

Me: It looks good on the outside, but inside, they are terrified. Because they don't know how they got there, they fear it can be taken away at any moment. To manage this fear, managing governments/people, they run to rituals, they beg for God’s grace, hoping to bribe fate to keep them safe.

Beloved: And the conscious man?

Me: The conscious man is different. He doesn't need luck, and he doesn't need to beg. He has achieved his life by understanding his own mind. He lives with absolute confidence because he knows he is not a victim of circumstances; he is the creator of them.

Beloved: So he has no fear?

Me: None. He knows he is made in the image of God—not as a servant, but as a creator. That is the state I have chosen. And that is why I stand on my understanding, no matter what the world says.

Beloved: This is a beautiful state to be in, but it feels overwhelming. Where does one even begin? How do we learn to steer this ship?

Me: I have found a path that works. It is like climbing a ladder. You start with the body, move to the brain, and end with the soul.

Beloved: Who guides the way?

Me: Start with Bruce Lipton. He is the foundation. He bridges biology and belief. He proves scientifically that we are not victims of our DNA; our thoughts signal our genes. He convinces your logical mind that you control your health.

Beloved: And after him?

Me: Then you go to Dr. Joe Dispenza. He is the bridge between the body and the world. He teaches you how to rewire your brain and change your electromagnetic signature.

Beloved: What does that mean?

Me: It means he explains how your personal energy effects the Quantum Field. He shows you that if you want a new life, you must stop being the "old you" chemically and neurologically. He gives you the practical tools—the meditations—to break the habit of being yourself.

Beloved: And the final step?

Me: Once you understand the science, you are ready for the ultimate truth: Neville Goddard.

Beloved: The Law of Assumption?

Me: Yes. Neville takes you beyond the brain and into the God-self. He teaches that you don't just "attract" reality; you are the reality. You simply assume the feeling of the wish fulfilled. You live from the end.

Lipton gives you the biology, Dispenza gives you the physics, and Neville gives you the power.