Perfect Couple

 Nowadays, it's common to witness couples engaged in heated arguments over various issues, making marriages a breeding ground for strained relationships. Such a couple is often labeled as imperfect or incompatible, leading to recommendations of separation or divorce if they are married. We all seek a comfortable and peaceful life, expecting others to conform to our vision, but we resist changing ourselves.

 Reality is the complete opposite of our perception. Despite being perceived as stressed by the general public, the couple is actually perfect for each other. They consciously embodied (or incarnated) conflicting personalities, using them as a means to explore and overcome painful emotions. The choice between reacting and responding lies at the crux of every decision, with painful consequences on one hand and constructive ones on the other. By restraining ourselves at the very brink, recollecting our true nature beyond body, and seeking the guidance from the heart, non-physical guides or soulmates, we unlock the pathway to finding a solution grounded in love and trust, rather than impulsively reacting to emotions and causing harm to others including himself or herself. This change necessitates the cultivation of emotional awareness rather than being solely driven by emotions, expanding our perception beyond the five senses. This is the growth, genuine growth for humans, promising to bring lasting contentment. Unaware of this truth, we tirelessly chase after material possessions and achievements, yet remain unsatisfied.

Looking at their relationship from a growth perspective, they complement each other perfectly. It is their choice whether they are aware or not.

Reference: Wisdom revealed through the body of Gary Zukav. This is my understanding, a work in progress as I continue to grow as a soul.

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