Man and Woman

 Caution – This is my opinion and I have exaggerated to catch your attention and make you think.

Man and woman are different. Nature has created them differently to meet different needs. Other than a few visible factors, I don't know all the reasons considered by nature while giving them different bodies. Beyond physical bodies, they would have different mental perceptions of reality. This is very subjective and perhaps better not discussed in this short article.

In the present times, under the name of equality, woman is being transformed into man. She is being equipped with skills that only men used to have. What I notice is, there hasn’t been much change on the man’s side, as this movement is primarily meant to uplift women. What kind of attraction will exist between man and man? I mean, woman is now, in effect, becoming a man. Practicality is a typical trait of men. Love and affection is a typical trait of women. Now, both partners are practical. The balance of practicality and love & affection is gone. I see this as one primary reason for the lack of connection in modern couples.

Another point: during my childhood, I used to receive a lot of attention from my grandmothers and great-grandmothers. I felt a lot of love showered on me by them. In present times, the typical woman has vanished—now the woman is also practical. In a way, woman has become a man in the body of a woman. I see a lot of practicality coming from them. When both parents are practical, children lose that nourishment and taste of love and affection that we once found abundantly but have unfortunately lost.

Overall, I feel this transformation, under the guise of equality, is unnatural, as we haven’t taken into account all the factors involved in our creation (other than addressing atrocities against women). Equality should not be taken literally in physical actions but should be considered in terms of respect, perception, and, most importantly, our conscious maturity. Work done at home to nourish family members with love and affection is as valuable as work done in an office—perhaps even more valuable. Transformation should first happen in our consciousness, and we should feel equal there. Once equality has come into our consciousness, physical reflection is inevitable. New creative solution which aligns with nature (which means no side affect as mentioned above) appears  as we live that matured state of consciousness. It cannot be imagined, planned and implemented by mind. It can only be seen when we live that matured state of consciousness. This way, we don’t need to give up the specific attributes of gender in our attempt to become equal.

Most importantly, don't wait for the society to evolve. You put your efforts to evolve. Your evolution inspires others and masses copy as usual.