Self worth

 Have you ever got the doubt whether you are really adding value in your life especially personal? Have you ever argued with others about how much value you are adding?

This doubt never arises—and there is never a need for argument—to honorable Prime Minister of India, Sri Narendra Modi, or honorable Chief Minister of Andhra Pradesh, Sri Nara Chandrababu Naidu, because they know they are working and adding value. They do not need validation from anyone. If you too can remain free from doubt like that, then you are truly adding value. Otherwise, most likely, you are not adding value but trying to cover it up with some logic.

Never ask others for validation, as it may turn unpleasant. Instead, close your eyes and introspect sincerely—are you genuinely adding value? Also, genuinely feel what the other person (for example, your spouse or the one with whom you face conflicts) is doing. This kind of honest self-reflection will show you what is lacking from your side and help you improve on it. Gradually, as you feel you are improving, your doubts will fade away, and you will begin to thrive with enthusiasm and joy.

When you reach that state, even if others try to throw mud on you in order to cover themselves, you will clearly know what you are doing. That clarity will safeguard your confidence, enthusiasm, and joy.


"If you are truly adding value, doubt never arises; the need for validation itself disappears."

"Genuine self‑introspection brings clarity, showing you what is lacking within and how you can improve."

"That same clarity becomes your shield, safeguarding your confidence, enthusiasm, and joy."

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